Manly full-time parenting, possible or no? Subscribe on iTunes, Spotify or Google Podcasts. With the Me Too movement sweeping the globe, some people say we've hit peak gender equality. God help us all if they're right because we've got such a long way to go to close the gender pay gap and eliminate misogyny once and for all. That... Continue Reading →
Ep. 13: Great (parental) expectations | Some Scuffs
You bring dishonour to your family. Subscribe on iTunes, Spotify or Google Podcasts. There are those who become doctors and engineers and architects, and volunteer for UNICEF while serving in their church choirs and still managing to spend Sundays with the family. Whose parents are positively glowing whenever they speak about their golden child. And then there's people like... Continue Reading →
Boy & Girl.
Gender binarism probably wasn't on the renowned Japanese photographer's mind when he snapped this shot. But what I found most striking about it was the fuzziness of traditional gender constructs. https://www.instagram.com/p/BBmnvRrt9MQ/ Kubota, Hiroji. Boy & Girl in front of Mandalay Hill. Myanmar (Burma), 1978. I love this photograph for two reasons. First, the title of... Continue Reading →
Senescence: We keep getting older and that sucks
senescence /sɪˈnɛs(ə)ns/ noun. the state of being old: the process of becoming old (Source: www.dictionary.com) My aunt took our grandma to get fitted for a hearing aid recently. It cost her about a thousand dollars, so naturally she was pretty pissed when Ahma refused to wear it at home. My dad and aunt chided her for taking it... Continue Reading →
Play time.
Once upon a time, we thought Neopets was the most exciting development in gaming history. 17 years later, we have Pokemon Go. I look back at my childhood and marvel at how primitive our modes of play were. Even before Pokemon cards, we had hopscotch and catching and Country Erasers. For the uninitiated, Country Erasers was a highly... Continue Reading →
It’s a man’s world.
"Coding is the most challenging thing I've ever encountered. That's what attracted me to do it." Sitting across me is Michelle Sun. Young, beautiful and highly intelligent, Michelle left her high-paying job as a research analyst at Goldman Sachs, went to Silicon Valley to learn coding from scratch and now owns a coding school for kids, First... Continue Reading →
How to lose a fight
My mother is one of the most selfless, loving people I have ever met. She's the sort of person who always leaves the last piece of fish for someone else. And shops with everyone but herself in mind. And worries if you don't drop her a text every night that you stay out late. She... Continue Reading →
The value of an animal’s life and why it’s okay to hate puppies
If you're a dog owner, and you often host dinner parties or get togethers, you've probably had a handful of house guests who, unfortunately, do not share your love of canines. Reactions can range from mild annoyance ("Yuck, it just licked my knee!") to complete hysteria ("OH MY GOD GET THAT THING AWAY FROM ME"). Aversion towards house... Continue Reading →